Five Messages From Spirit About Finding Love
I’m a psychic medium and angel channel, and many of my clients are interested in receiving guidance about love and relationships. I would love to share the following insights about love. Over the years, angels and spirit guides have shared this wisdom with me during readings and on my personal journey of calling in love.
1. Self-love leads to partnership with your divine match.
We’ve all been told that in order to love others we need to love ourselves. When self-loathing overshadows self-love, the likelihood of entering a relationship with the wrong person increases.
For most of us, self-love is a journey. If you’re experiencing difficulty believing that you’re worthy of love, you can start by simply being a loving parent to yourself.
Would you tell your child that he/she/they are ugly, stupid, and unworthy? Would you tell them that mistakes are unacceptable? Or that they will never find love because they don’t deserve it?
You’re a precious being. Treat yourself as such.
Love yourself for not being perfect. Love the messy parts of yourself. Love the fact that you are self-aware enough to heal negative patterns. You got this!
2. Love your partner for who he/she/they are right now.
Have you ever fallen in love with your partner’s potential? My first serious boyfriend’s dream was to become a robotics engineer. He constantly talked about building robots someday. I wanted to be with someone with a steady income, so I chose to be in a relationship with the robotics engineer.
But that robotics engineer didn’t exist. My partner was actually a man who was passionate about coffee and loved working as a barista. Higher education was too emotionally challenging for him.
Once I realized he couldn’t meet my expectations, we broke up.
So many of my clients wait for their partners to change the core of who they are, when their partners actually have no desire to do so. We all grow and change in relationships. But if you’re waiting for your partner to become something they’re not, you will always feel a sense of dissatisfaction.
Try taking a leap of faith. Trust that you will find a mate that can fulfill your desires in the present moment.
3. Release the fear of ending your unhealthy relationship.
When a client know it is time to end their relationship but is afraid to do so, the angels reveal the beautiful outcomes that could arise if they end their relationship with integrity.
When you give yourself permission to end a relationship, you open doors for your partner and yourself. Your partner’s hurt feelings will fade when they recognize that they are free to find a lasting love. That is unless they choose to hold onto the hurt and anger. But that’s their choice.
If you’re afraid that breaking up with your partner means that you could be single forever, ask yourself what you’d rather do: be in an unhappy relationship, or take the risk that may lead to finding a partner that will truly make you happy.
4. You have the power to co-create and call in your beloved.
If you’re experiencing challenges finding a partner and you’re ready to throw in the towel, don’t worry. You have the ability to co-create with spirit to help your desires blossom into reality. You have more than one soul mate and the angels and guides want you to find your most compatible match.
Write a letter to spirit about why you would be an amazing partner. Are you a good listener? Are you able to communicate effectively? Are you kind and supportive?
Write it all down in a special journal.
After you’re clear about what you have to offer, write a list of everything you desire in a partner. Think of every detail you can possibly want without judging it for being superficial. Consider your past relationships, whether or not they were positive or difficult. You can use your experiences with former partners to gain more clarity about what you want.
For example, if your previous partner had anger management issues, you would write down that you desire someone who is even-tempered.
Then review your list and put a star next to the traits that are non-negotiable, such as loving, kind, honest, etc.
When you are done with your list, imagine how you’d walk through life with your partner. Visualize your soulmate holding you in the morning when you first wake up. When you open your closet, imagine your partner’s clothes hanging next to yours.
Use your intuition to connect to your mate’s energy. You are intuitive, whether you realize it or not. Quiet your mind, and see your partner as a ball of energy. Feel the warmth of the energy and breathe it in.
5. Let go of karmic relationships that don’t serve you.
Have you ever had a connection with someone that was really powerful, but the relationship itself felt unhealthy?
You might even notice synchronicities that appear to be signs from spirit that this person is your soul mate. But if your interactions are unhealthy, you are misinterpreting the purpose of your connection.
Letting go of this person energetically can feel impossible, even if you ended your relationship ten years ago.
You may have had an intense relationship with this person in a past life. Or perhaps he/she/they came into your life to reveal aspects of your heart and soul that need healing.
Visualize a meeting with him/her/them and thank them for coming into your life. Acknowledge the lessons they taught you, surround them with pink light, and wish them well. You may have to repeat this many times if they continue to pop-up in your mind.
If you have a deep desire for love and partnership, then it is your destiny to find it. Allow spirit to be your match maker. Open your heart and prepare to receive the most extraordinary love.